What are good questions to ask your partner?

Questions about values and plans, asked when you have time: what matters, what you want next, what you want more of.

How often should we do this?

A question a day keeps you close; a longer talk once a week goes deeper.

That’s useful. Knowing where you differ is the start of working it out.

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Questions to ask your partner

Questions to ask your partner about what you value, where you are going and how your day really was. For couples of any length. Top 10 first, then 70 more. Draw a card, ask it out loud, tap Done.

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What’s something you’re proud of that I don’t say enough?

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The top 10

Questions to ask your partner about what you value, where you are going and how your day really was. For couples of any length. Top 10 first, then 70 more. Draw a card, ask it out loud, tap Done.

A ritual for two

In the app you both answer the same question each day, and In Sync shows where you match on the big things.

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Questions to ask your partner

What’s something you’re proud of that I don’t say enough?

The top 10

A ritual for two

Every card, by section

What you value25 cards

Where you’re going14 cards

Family17 cards

A question a day24 cards

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