What are good questions to ask a girl?

Ones that ask for a story or a favourite: a trip, a song, a person she admires. They are easy to answer and easy to follow up.

What should I avoid asking?

Anything that sounds like a test, and a string of questions with no answers of your own. Share back.

Are these for a girlfriend too?

They work, but the Questions to ask your girlfriend page goes further into the two of you.

For two · 85 cards

Questions to ask her

Questions to ask a girl you’re getting to know, from easy openers to the ones that make a conversation last all night. Top 10 first, then 75 more. Draw a card, ask it out loud, tap Done.

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What’s something that always makes your day better?

You both answer. Then tap Done.

The top 10

Questions to ask a girl you’re getting to know, from easy openers to the ones that make a conversation last all night. Top 10 first, then 75 more. Draw a card, ask it out loud, tap Done.

Take it to a first date

The First dates deck in the app deals one question at a time, so it feels like a game, not an interview.

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To get to know her22 cards

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Fun ones25 cards

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What she cares about25 cards

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Her plans and dreams13 cards

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Questions to ask her

What’s something that always makes your day better?

The top 10

Take it to a first date

Every card, by section

To get to know her22 cards

Fun ones25 cards

What she cares about25 cards

Her plans and dreams13 cards

Questions people ask

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