What should I ask my boyfriend?

Start light: something funny or a memory of you two. Save the deep ones for when you are both relaxed, and ask follow-ups instead of the next question.

How do I get him to open up?

Answer the question yourself first. Questions about stories (“when did you last…”) work better than questions about feelings.

Are these good for a long-distance boyfriend?

Yes. They work on a call, and the daily question in the app is made for couples apart.

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Questions to ask your boyfriend

Questions to ask your boyfriend, from easy and funny to the things he hasn’t said yet. Ask one tonight instead of “how was your day?”. Top 10 first, then 87 more. Draw a card, ask it out loud, tap Done.

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What’s something you’ve never told me because you thought I’d laugh?

You both answer. Then tap Done.

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Ask him in the app

A question a day for the two of you: you both answer, and the answers open together at 8 pm. Plus decks for date night and games for two.

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What’s something you’ve never told me because you thought I’d laugh?

The top 10

Ask him in the app

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Questions to ask him20 cards

About love and us38 cards

Fun ones25 cards

His family and dreams14 cards

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