What should I ask my crush?

Something easy that invites a story: a favourite place, a weird talent, the best thing about their week. Then follow up.

Do these work over text?

Yes. The openers are short enough for a message and easy to answer.

Rapid-fire questions. Ask one, listen, and share your own answer too.

For two · 79 cards

Questions to ask your crush

Questions to ask your crush, in person or over text. Easy to answer, fun to follow up, and none of them sound like an interview. Top 10 first, then 69 more. Draw a card, ask it out loud, tap Done.

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What’s something that always makes you laugh, no matter what?

You both answer. Then tap Done.

The top 10

Questions to ask your crush, in person or over text. Easy to answer, fun to follow up, and none of them sound like an interview. Top 10 first, then 69 more. Draw a card, ask it out loud, tap Done.

For the first date

The First dates deck in the app has 184 cards for getting past small talk without it feeling like an interview.

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Easy openers25 cards

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Fun ones40 cards

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A bit deeper14 cards

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Questions to ask your crush

What’s something that always makes you laugh, no matter what?

The top 10

For the first date

Every card, by section

Easy openers25 cards

Fun ones40 cards

A bit deeper14 cards

Questions people ask

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